A keeper piece, Desiree!
I am currently in seeker/student mode - learning the better, non-angry/defensive way to communicate, minus the shadow side of the Victim archetype. In my previous relationship, I now see my instant reactions played a huge role in the relationship's demise. The relationship was destined to tank anyway because my partner was NOT on my path or interested at all in it...but it took me awhile to see the valuable lessons in the pain.
As you're aware, my re-wilding continues apace. Thank you for sparking it.