Having only recently emerged from a very painful period regarding a partner's infidelity/break up, I so relate to this article. FORTUNATELY, I had the example of too many unforgiving friends post-divorce to want to walk in their footsteps. A great therapist helped (who knew my Ex well and could help me understand what demons were driving him, as well as me) plus lots of Caroline Myss on the power of love vs the love of power. Thanks, Bridget