I could go on forever about the truth of these words - discovered after my divorce. Though I'll admit, I still struggle, 5 years later, w/ guilt. (We were married 32 years)

So much of what you shared I felt as well. Or still feel - for example, I simply will not go to any large event unless it's a wedding or funeral. (Covid has been 'heaven' in that regard for me.) And, like you, I'm an introvert who loves to write (poetry) and garden

Great article, thanks!