I have a huge loss of hope as well because too many on both sides harbor such hatred of the other, which is nuts. We'e all semites! (I say this as someone with a 98% Lebanese ancestry). I suspect it's solution must resemble The Troubles - when mothers got fed up w/ children dying. What deeply troubles me, that said, are videos of young Arab children being taught to hate/kill Jews. Do this the Jews do this as well? Somehow I don't think so.
It's a mess. Prayers and love and converted hearts the only true solution, not more violence