No. I can't. I've been thru a very rough patch...much heartache. And what I've realized as I've healed and grown - I'm one of those souls who learns invaluable lessons the hard way, thru pain - is that taking each shattered piece of my heart and loving someone with it is the only way to live. To truly be alive. I'm talking agape love here of course. Jungian stuff. The wounded healer. Caroline Myss has taught me so much about love/God...have you read her or heard her speak? myss.com