Oh, dear. I am so sorry.

And I empathize. I grew up hearing my mother tell me how when she got pregnant w/ me she knew it would have an impact on her opera career. So she went up in a small plane doing aerobatics hoping she'd miscarry.

I long ago let that go but so many hurts, not mother induced, but at the hands of those I loved, followed. Gonna take your advice. xox