This reminds me of a friend who left his marriage. As you segue to, he decided it was "time he chose his own happiness first," though he was heartbroken for the impact it would have on his wife and children. Your story may help others in ways you don't even anticipate!

I think life usually is a yin/yang balancing of emotions. The goal - to learn to live with the tension of it all. In your case, the pain of leaving vs the joy of knowing this is what is Best. Best wishes to you, Tre!